EROTIC AWAKENING for women
a 3-month journey to pleasure and power
if you desire to….
Expand your capacity for orgasm.
Invigorate desire & libido.
Learn the secrets of seduction, flirtation, and feminine magnetism.
Transform shame into an authentic, unguarded expression.
Become empowered to communicate your needs and desires without fear.
Enjoy the way your body feels by cultivating unconditional self-love.
Erotic Awakening includes:
Three months of continuous support through your transformation.
Ten 1:1 intensive coaching sessions over Zoom.
In-between session support and accountability to keep you consistent.
Customized self-pleasure practices to re-write your mindset and circuitry.
Guided meditations recorded just for you.
Resources and reading recommendations to empower you with knowledge.
Every woman is uniquely beautiful, with infinite variables on how her nervous system moderates change. No two women are alike.
And yet…
I’ve been a sex therapist for over two decades, serving tens of thousands of women. And in that time, I’ve amassed a body of work that matches the arc of transformation I most commonly see.
Erotic Awakening unfolds in three phases:
Phase 1) A New Erotic Mindset.
A sex-positive mindset is the foundation to sexual satisfaction. Your upbringing, religion, culture and past experiences (trauma) shape how you experience sex today. In this phase, we lovingly uproot the programming that may be blocking the full capacity of pleasure in your body.
Together we gently excavate your sexual programming and subconscious beliefs that inform your experience of intimacy.
We then plant new seeds of healthy and authentic beliefs that YOU choose to embody now.
You can expect….
A sexy new manifesto that aligns with your soul; that feels right for YOU; and gives your mind and body a whole new sexual blueprint to follow for maximum pleasure.
Phase 2) Re-Wire Your Sexual Circuitry.
Then we use somatic psychology and embodiment practices to re-wire the communication between your brain, nervous system, and sex organs.
You’ll get an extensive (and fascinating!) education about the female sexual arousal system - you know - the stuff you should have been taught long ago about female pleasure - and where to find the untapped treasures, or “spots”, on your body.
This phase includes virtual pleasure mapping to fortify nerve highways and erectile tissue in the vulva, and take turn-on to a whole new level!
You can expect….
New and pleasurable sensations in your body - including stronger and more frequent orgasms, a more honoring and loving relationship with the miracle of your body, customized Self-Pleasure Practices that awaken your inner sex goddess. Think: Breathwork, pelvic floor practices, new toys, erotic meditation, and so much more ;)
Phase 3) Sweeten Your Sexual Relationships
Now that you’ve been expanding your pleasure and learning how you *really* like it, it’s time to bring that exciting new capacity into your relationships so both you AND your partner are more fulfilled.
We’ll be upgrading your style of intimacy and attachment, and learn how to communicate your requests to a partner, and to develop attunement - or - emotional connection - with the people you love.
You can expect…
To be empowered to put your needs first, to never settle for less than great sex, and to relate authentically and courageously. This can all be done in a way that invites deeper intimacy and love.
* If you’re partnered, you can use a portion of Phase 3 sessions doing couples’ work. Bring your boo in! And we’ll fine-tune your intimacy to make your relationship sing.
* If you’re single, you may really want the Date Like A Goddess Add-On below.
“Thank God for you, Eva, thank God for you being the healer that you are.
I have to admit I was scared shitless in the beginning. I didn't know what I was getting myself into. But I knew I needed some sexual healing. I didn't think there's any more hope for me, and I've had a lot of therapy. But I met you and thought ~ ‘I’ve got to work with this woman.’ And I showed up for 10 weeks with you, and we worked through some serious stuff.
I'm not ashamed to tell everybody that I learned self pleasure in a loving and energetically connected way. Now I have energetic orgasms all the time.
And I've called in a new man, he's 17 years younger than me! And he adores me. I feel like I'm 20 again!!
I tell all of my female friends about you! Everybody needs to know about the magic of Eva Clay.”
~ Cindy Rosandich, Business Owner
“When I came to Eva I was going through a separation with my husband. Through our work together, I discovered how frozen I was in my body and unable to receive pleasure and love. She taught me to heal trauma through the portal of pleasure. She helped me unlock the places in my body that were stuck, and bring deep healing to my body and nervous system.
By the end of our time together my body was so much more available for pleasure and love! She taught me to move emotions through my body and not collapse into them. Working with her was so powerful that it brought my husband and I back togther ~ and connecting in a way we hadn't ever been able to before. Eva - you’re amazing and I love you!”
~ Laura Greenberg, Marketing Coach
date like a goddess package
If you’re single and seeking, let’s be smart about attracting your dream lover!
Together we’ll make dating on the apps a fun and playful adventure (Yes! This can totally happen).
In four 90-minute sessions, you will…
Learn the art of embodying irresistible feminine magnetism, where seduction comes from your raw emotional expression and self-worth.
Write your bombastic profile that immediately filters out the riff-raff, attracts the ones you deserve, and saves your time (and sanity!).
Select the pics that a) flatter you, and b) strategically entice the exact person you’re calling in.
Develop a communication approach that’s authentic, flirtatious, and clearly communicates your worth and value.
Get masterful at making first dates fun, so you arrive relaxed, open-hearted, and discerning.
Includes: “What do I do Coaching” via email, where Eva supports you on the perfect text responses, and the tricky situations that can come with dating (hint: keep an open heart and hold your power!).
vip retreat: ultra pleasure goddess
For the woman who’s ready for the ultimate upgrade of pleasure and power, we’ll meet in-person for 1, 2 or 3 full days in the sunshine and luxury of Santa Monica.
This work involves deep spiritual healing and profound sexual awakening - coordinated by Eva and held in comfort and privacy.
A sample menu of options:
Psychedelic psychotherapy sessions that hold you in luxury and safety.
Deep emotional release sessions to transform grief and disappointment into an open heart that’s ready to receive love more fully than ever.
A comprehensive somatic training in embodying feminine energy and power in the bedroom and beyond!
A safe exploration of taboo desires - an introduction to BDSM arts and more.
Sexological Bodywork sessions with a trained & trusted professional to heal sexual trauma and awaken orgasm.
Investment: To be quoted based on desires