Prepare to be Disappointed in Your "King".

Ladies, I hate to break it to you, but prepare to be disappointed in your "King".

If you're a ”Queen" who’s calling in your “King”, that's super wonderful. 🌹 But after you've read the memes and spent the money on properly installing your "codes", you may be in for a surprise.

👉🏼 Kings will not always act like Kings.
Sometimes they're overthrown because they're not fit to lead.
Sometimes they go mad.
Sometimes they behead their Queen in favor of another (King Henry VIII executed TWO of his SIX).

That's the problem with monarchy. Aside from being a terribly outdated ruling system, the archetypes are glorified dictatorships - from violent, fu*ked up epochs of human history.

Perpetuating these metaphors, without the grounding of present-context, nuts-and-bolts relational skills, are just egging you on to dream about your aggrandized fairytale relationship.

In real life, relationships are a fantastically complex phenomenon.

💪 Your so-called King WILL say and do stupid shit.
He will drink too much, slam the door, fart in bed, and emotionally melt down like a 12 year old school girl.

He will have his King moments, and his not-so-King moments.

So will you, Queen, forget your crown from time to time. 👑
Humans fall off their royal high horse, get back on, govern imperfectly, and repeat.

This is the problem if hierarchical mythologies become an absolute operating system, rather than ONE tool out of many.

My practice is FULL of disappointed couples who discover that their "Twin Flame" also stinks up the bathroom. They come to ME to re-write their Mythic Love Story into a more satisfying (and sustainable) one.

It's easy to get twitter-pated about attracting a powerful man, one who has the "King" or "Alpha" energy you dream of.

🎯 Can you get equally enthusiastic about skillfully holding space for an imperfect man to rise in a real relationship? Because THIS 👉🏼 like it or not 👈🏼 is the true calling for women today.

I know it's not as exciting to say "Call In the Prime Minister of Your Parliamentary Democracy" 🤣

And it wouldn't sell to say "Call In Your [Sometimes] King [Who May Have His Weaknesses] and Skillfully Hold Space for Him [When He Flounders] Without Losing Your Boundaries [and then Laugh Hysterically About Your Mutual Royal F*cked-Upness]." 🤣

Stay grounded, Queens. A solid understanding of relating skills & masculine psychology to compliment your King-catching will prevent you from ever needing ME to clean up your relationship.

Study up! => Aphrodite Circle is an excellent place to start!

Here if you need me.

I love you ♥️